I’ve found the
transition more difficult this time. Perhaps because I’ve enjoyed the entire
year of maternity leave a lot more than I did the first one. Mia has seemed an
easier baby, and I’ve also really appreciated the extra time that I’ve had to
spend with Harry. Things have changed a bit at work while I’ve been away, but I
have settled in, moved in my jar of Marmite, my hot chocolate and cardigan, and
claimed my space with framed photos and postcards.
In order to fit in my
hours I need to start very early in the morning, so two mornings a week Ram
will be responsible for breakfasting and dressing both little ones and
delivering them to their nursery. When I went to collect them on Monday, two of
the staff took great delight in telling me that Harry had come in with his
trousers on backwards because Daddy had dressed him that morning.
It does feel as though
the house has rather descended into chaos without me being there throughout the
day. The washing is piling up, the dishwasher is full, and my kitchen counters
are barely visible underneath piles of clutter. Luckily yesterday my parents
were on duty, and so my Mum gave the kitchen a bit of a clean and tidied up
some of the toys.
I am going to miss the
activities that we used to do, and there won’t be as much time for crafting or
playing (not to mention blogging!). But hopefully it will make the time that I
do have at home more precious, and it will also do me good to have a break and
enjoy some adult conversation.
So here’s to a new
chapter!
Aww the year flew by. All the best in your new chapter. The chaos will subside in no time hopefully : )
ReplyDeleteThank you, yes I hope so!
DeleteGood luck, I am sure once you get into a routine things like the housework will just sort of happen as and when a bit easier, and like you say the time you do spend together will be more precious.
ReplyDeleteThank you! Yes, it's just a case of letting everything settle down again!
DeleteHope you get back into it quickly. I found not a lot had changed when I went back after a year, but I really miss meeting my mum friends and similarly going to the groups we really used to enjoy. Plus work is manic - same job in shorter hours, with no extended deadlines thanks to customer requirements. The being with colleagues again and using your brain in a different way is great though and definitely needed imo.
ReplyDeleteI am going to miss some of the things that we used to do, also you forget how restrictive it is when you have to go to work when it comes to making appointments, waiting in for deliveries and so on! It's true that you do use your brain in a different way when you are a work, and it's a good thing.
DeleteWishing you all the best - and I love the story about the backwards trousers!
ReplyDeleteAlso... Marmite! :D
Thank you! Yes, a jar of Marmite for the desk is a must, I take in bread and make myself toast for breakfast!
Deletelove the comment about harry's trousers on backwards! :) best of luck!
ReplyDeleteThank you! Yes, the two girls told me independently of each other, they obviously had a good laugh about it!
DeleteEnjoy the work, it will give you a bit of breathing space.
ReplyDeleteThank you! Yes, it's nice to have some quiet time!
DeleteHope you soon settle into the new routine - its all positive and you make the most of the time you are together xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you! I do look forward to my time with the little ones much more now!
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