Why I love my collection of vintage birthday cards

I have many collections. I particularly like to collect things which don't take up very much space, and colourful paper ephemera has always appealed to me.

My parents are having a sort out and I was delighted to be able to take ownership of a big pile of vintage birthday cards from the late 1940s and early 1950s as well as some that were even older. I just love them, they are so bright and colourful with such cheerful images.

This is just a few of them, I have several from each year as well as lots of general birthday cards and also some Christmas cards. I feel as though they could be made into some kind of framed display, especially the ones with the numbers. They would be great for a child's nursery, although unfortunately we are well past that now! I've been looking online but I can't find any ideas for crafts using them which surprised me as I think they are so lovely and I'd really like to display them somehow.

Maybe they appeal to me because they make me think of a more innocent time, when children (and adults) were happy with more simple things. Maybe a birthday card was more treasured when you couldn't just drop a quick text. 

I definitely think they deserve to be looked after and appreciated!

How to use images as journal prompts

I love writing in my journal. I write about all sorts of things - what I've done that day, things that I'm worrying about, things that have caught my eye in the news, basically just anything that has been on my mind. Something that I've been dabbling in recently is using images as prompts for a journal entry. I've not done any creative writing since I was at school, and I have no desire to publish any of my creative writing. But I enjoy the process of creating, and using writing to express myself. I thought I'd share a few ideas on how to incorporate an image prompt into your journal writing process.

What types of images to use?

A place - either somewhere familiar or unknown. Somewhere that reminds you of somewhere that you've been, or somewhere that you'd like to go.

Faces and people - either that you recognise or of strangers. Close up individual portraits or family groups. Sitting still or taking part in an activity.

Natural images - plants, flowers, water, sky, landscapes.

Objects - modern or historic. Things that you own or would like to own. Something that reminds you of someone or something in your past. A single object or a large collection.

Seasonal - images that remind you of a certain season, either a season of the year or a season of life.

Where to find suitable pictures?

Postcards - ones that you've been sent or ones that you spot while out and about.

Your own photographs - favourite photos with memories attached to them, or pictures that you've taken of things that caught your eye and sparked your interest. I recently found an old photo in my parent's things that I couldn't help but write a journal entry about!

Magazines and catalogues - inspirational and aesthetic images or mundane advertising shots.

Online - I source my blog photos from Unsplash, or if it's for your own personal use then you can just do a Google image search and print. If you want to save potential writing prompts then Pinterest is a great way to group images that you've found online.

Photobooks or other collections of images - I recently bought a little book of tiny stickers and realised that they would be ideal for journal prompts!

What sort of things could you write about?

Describe the image as you see it, and write about where you found it. Why did it catch your eye, and why did you choose this one over others? Is there one part of the image that particularly draws your attention?

How does this image make you feel? Think about the emotions that you feel when you look at the picture. Are they positive or negative? Does it make you think of something that you'd like to change about your life, whether that's a place you want to visit, an experience you want to have, or a change that you'd like to make to your surroundings.

Is there something that you've noticed in the image that isn't obvious at first glance? Maybe something seen in reflection or something in the distance. An expression on a face that doesn't feel quite right. What have you seen that a casual viewer might miss?

What happened just before or just after this photo was taken? What might have happened in this place in the past, or might happen here in the future? Why was the photo taken at just this time?

Why was this photograph taken? What else could it be used for?

What are the relationships between the people in a photo? Or the subject and the photographer? How do they feel about each other, are they friends, acquaintances or strangers?

What does this image remind you of in your own life? Something in your past, a dream, a memory or even something that hasn't happened yet.

Write from the perspective of a person in the photograph or even an object. What can they see, how do they feel, what are they thinking about?

Use the image as the starting point for a short story or poem. Maybe a location, a character or even just an emotion. This might even help you to learn something about yourself, maybe some challenges that you are facing or something you need to overcome.

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Things that I miss in a digital world

I've been having a bit of a sort out recently, and going through some of my stashes of mementoes. It's made me feel a little sad at how much has been replaced now that there are digital alternatives. Maybe the options are more sustainable, and easier to use for the customer, but I think that we are missing out! Here are some things that either no longer exist, or that I feel won't be around for much longer.

Catalogues

The other week I received a Lakeland catalogue in the post and I was unashamedly thrilled. So many gorgeous pictures of Christmassy things to pore over. We took a trip to Ikea and I felt bereft that you can no longer pick up a catalogue to keep on the coffee table at home (I just looked it up, the last physical Ikea catalogue was printed in 2020). Yes, webpages and apps are more up to date with current prices, special offers and detailed information, but nothing beats flicking through colourful shiny pages filled with inspirational images. 

Physical tickets

I love keeping tickets to things - theatre, cinema, concerts, museums, travel and so on. I have a stash of cinema tickets from the 90s when I used to go every week with my friends, no matter what was showing. My books are filled with concert tickets that I've used as bookmarks. Now you enter a venue with a QR code, and once inside you never look at it again. 

Alarm clocks

I loved the battery alarm clock I had as a teenager. It was cube shaped and had a dial on the top which you could turn to see the time in different countries around the world. I loved looking at all the exotic countries and imagining what people were up to. I've tried to source myself something similar but I can't find one that I like. I have Echo Dot next to my bed which displays the time and acts as an alarm clock but it's just not the same.

Writing letters

As part of my degree I spent a year studying in Germany. I had quite a lot of free time, and I kept up a steady stream of written correspondence with my husband-to-be, my family and lots of my friends. I loved checking my little letter box and discovering a handwritten letter from home, and I've kept them all. These days communication would be more frequent via WhatsApp or social media updates, but it would be fleeting and transient. The age of bundles of love letters is gone forever, it's just not the same scrolling through short and insubstantial text messages. Of course there's nothing to stop me picking up a pen and writing to my friends, but they are busy people and I don't want to burden them with the thought that they would then have to take the time to write back to me!

Stamps

Stamps used to be so pretty! I know that Royal Mail do release special themed stamps, but I never see them because most letters that I receive just have the postage printed directly on the envelope. 

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New album releases on cassette and CD

It used to be such an event going out to buy the CD when a new album was released, and listening to it while flipping through the little booklet that came with it containing the lyrics and photos. Now I listen to a new album release on Spotify and it's just not the same. My daughter tells me that you can still buy physical albums for bands which come with posters, photobooks etc. - but we don't even have a CD player any more!

Postcards

I've written before about how I love to collect postcards, and I remember sending and receiving postcards from all of my summer holidays. Now we just share regular photos in the family WhatsApp groups.

Paper maps

Whenever I visit somewhere new I always try to find a map to keep and remind me of my travels, I have boxes filled with maps and leaflets that I love to sort through. You can sometimes still get a map in a touristy place, but of course it's much easier to use an app that knows exactly where you are. You lose the souvenir though! I particularly enjoy looking at old maps of places like theme parks because they change so often and it's a little slice of time. But they are being slowly phased out and I know they won't be around for much longer.

Real dictionaries

I am very tempted to buy myself a physical copy of the Oxford English dictionary. I used to have several, including a huge one which was decluttered years ago. I'm sure that there's a dictionary app that I could use, but when I'm reading I don't want to be distracted by my phone to look up an unfamiliar word, it would make it harder to get back in to the book again.

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Packets of printed out photos

It used to be so exciting going to get photos developed, seeing how well your shots had come out and reliving all those holiday memories. You can of course get photos printed but it's so much more effort deciding which of the hundreds of photos to print, working out how to upload them, and trying to find the best deal when it comes to price. I also feel that the quality isn't as good as when printing from film. Most of my old photos are in boxes with some of my favourites in albums, and I love going through them. I need to make an effort to print out more of my digital pics!

What do you miss that now has a digital replacement?

Things that I've written about in my journal recently

I took a bit of a break from my journal over the summer, I'm not sure why but I just got out of the habit a little bit. But when the work started on our extension I wanted to pick it up and write some entries about what work had been done and how things were going. So that has been the main focus of my journal over the last few weeks, just to have something to look back on in the future. Not just a factual account but also how I've been feeling about it, and things that I'm looking forward to about the new space.

But I've also found time to write about plenty of other things! I made this very simple collage after feeling a little bit sad at the state of my poor garden, which is now a big muddy wasteland. I used some botanical collage elements and pretty floral washi stickers to remind me that soon I will have a beautiful garden!

For the first few weeks of term the road outside the school was closed and so I had to drop the children off in an adjacent street. I've walked this way plenty of times before, but sitting with them in the car when we arrived early gave me the time to properly notice the abandoned church which has been decaying slowly over the last few years. It is up for sale but it's really big, which is probably why it hasn't sold as a conversion project. I quickly drew a very small part of it to remind me, I'll be interested to see what happens to it over the next few years.

A couple of weeks ago I was delighted to receive a Lakeland Christmas catalogue through the post. I  like looking through the catalogue more than visiting the shop, which is good as there isn't one that I can easily visit. But a Lakeland concession is opening soon at the garden centre down the road, and I'm very much looking forward to having a look round. In the meantime I spent a lovely quiet evening cutting out my favourite aesthetic Christmas photos and gluing them down to create an inspirational collage.

And finally I was helping my parents sort through some things at their house and I came across this amazing photo! It was in the 'throw out' pile so she's not a relative of mine, and no-one knows who she was or why they had the photo. I must admit that I've partly shared it here just in case someone might find it as part of an image search and be able to give me some more information! I just love it, that expression on her face. I wrote a little bit about why I liked it so much and who I imagine she might be.

Free things that I collect

As much as I aspire to minimalism, the truth is that I also want to live surrounded by things that inspire me and that bring joy to my life. I'm not a big shopper, and I've realised that most of the things that I enjoy collecting are things that I've picked up for free over the years. I love appreciating the little things in life, and saving small souvenirs that remind me of the places that I've been and the things that I've seen. 

Here are some of my collections:

Postcards

I have a huge collection of postcards that I've picked up over the years. Some of them are flyers for university events, and many of them came from trips to the cinema back in the 90s when they used to have racks of free postcards advertising all sorts of things. I used to come home with a bagful! If I ever spot one while I'm visiting somewhere I have to pick it up, I just love all the different designs and how advertising has changed over time. I currently have most of them stored in a deep plastic folder, but I do have a few favourites pinned around my desk and a large postcard display hanger in the utility room.

Business cards

In this digital age these are quite often still around, especially in pubs and restaurants. If I spot one at the till while I'm paying I surreptitiously slip it into my wallet, usually to stick into my journal later! They are a lovely reminder of the places that I've been.

Pens

I can't resist a free pen, and some of them have become my favourites to use. I have a great one which I picked up at a hotel that we stayed at in Florida last year. It's chunky, it writes smoothly, and when I use it I'm transported back to a lovely sunny beach and a relaxing pool.

Notepads

I can't resist a hotel notepad, especially if it has the name of the hotel on it. I also have a few sets of postcards, envelopes and writing paper purloined from various fancier hotels that we've stayed in. I keep the pads in my desk drawer to grab when I need to make a quick note of something.

Pretty boxes and bags

I keep any kind of attractive box or bag, especially gift bags. I've never bought a gift bag, I always seem to have the perfect one to hand when I need it! I use pretty boxes for storage, or I use the lids as trays in drawers for smaller items. I also keep a stash of plain boxes on hand for sending out eBay parcels. I quite often buy things like biscuits just for the tin that they come in, I do love a decorative tin and I always keep my eyes open in the post Christmas sales.

Beach finds

Shhh, I know that you aren't supposed to bring home shells and stones from the beach. But I think everyone that has visited the seaside has at least a few in their home, and I am very discerning with what I bring back. Also, most of the things that I collect from the beach are not natural materials, for example I love to search for colourful sea glass or marine plastic.

Tote bags

My husband often comes back with these from work events and we have quite a collection. I can't bear to throw them out! I don't tend to use them for shopping, but they are very useful for filling with charity donations and I hope they come in useful to the shop as well. Now that plastic shopping bags are harder to come by it's always useful to have a spare one or two that you don't mind not getting back.

Do you collect things that you come across in your daily life? 

How our orangery extension is looking now

A few weeks ago I shared a photograph of the hole in the side of our house. We are currently in the process of adding an orangery extension to our house, a project which we've been planning and saving for almost since we moved in nearly 12 years ago. Work started two months ago, and now we are finally at the stage where it is really starting to take shape!

We have a roof with the two lanterns in place and all the doors and windows are fitted so the structure is sealed and already feels warm even though there is no heating. Yesterday the plastering was finished, and the inside is starting to look amazing!

Now the plaster needs to dry and the next job is to put in the flooring. Firstly a foundation floor in the extension area, then to remove the old tiles in what was the kitchen and dining room and lay matching tiles throughout.

As you can see in the pictures, the wooden partitions are still in place. They've done a brilliant job at keeping the dust out of the rest of the house, and although it has meant that the kitchen has felt a little dark and depressing it did mean that we could carry on in the rest of the house without being in the way of the workers. The boards are due to come down later this week, and I can't wait to get a proper look at what the final space will look like!

Petite and polished: Creating sleek and stylish outfits for any occasion

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As a petite woman, you may have faced the challenge of finding clothes that flatter your figure, highlight your strengths, and preserve your personal style. However, as the fashion industry invests more into diversified sizing, shopping has become less of a chore. Clothes for petite bodies have evolved from a limited selection to a wide range of style-forward options. Here are some tips for creating sleek and stylish outfits that pull together petite and polished looks.

Master the Basics 

Every stylish wardrobe begins with a strong foundation of basic pieces. These pivotal items perfectly fit and flatter your body and can be mixed and matched to create various looks. Consider investing in a pair of petite womens jeans, as they are specifically designed for shorter figures and can be styled in countless ways. Opt for dark wash jeans, as this colour makes your legs appear longer.

When it comes to tops, go for fitted ones that show off your figure without bunching up or falling too long. Additionally, investing in tailoring can be a game changer. A well-tailored blazer or coat can provide a polished look while ensuring perfect fit and proportion for your body.

Play with Proportions 

A common misconception about dressing as a petite woman lies in the supposed need to wear only fitted clothing to elongate the silhouette. While this can be an effective trick, playing intelligently with proportions can also enhance a petite figure stylishly. Strategic layering is a practical way to add dimension and depth to your ensemble. For instance, a long, flowing duster jacket paired with fitted jeans can create an intriguing look while highlighting your lean features.

Similarly, choosing high-waisted pants or skirts can elongate your lower body. This illusion of added height can be further amplified with a pair of statement heels.

Add the Fine Details 

Maintaining a polished look often comes down to the finer details. Choose accessories that are proportionate to your figure. Oversized bags or extremely chunky jewellery can be overwhelming for a smaller frame. Instead, consider delicate necklaces, smaller handbags, or dainty bracelets. 

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Shoe choices are also key – while petite women can look fabulous in flats, heels, or wedges, the key is to find the right balance for your outfit. Consider pointed shoes as they can extend the line of your leg - a petite woman's best friend for creating an appearance of height.

Creating Occasion-Specific Looks

Professional Settings

In professional settings, structured pieces can create a polished aesthetic. Power suits tailored to your frame, or pencil skirts paired with fitted blouses, exemplify sleek corporate style. For an added touch of sophistication, a pair of pointed kitten heels can perfect the look.

Casual Outings 

For casual days out, jeans and a chic white tee can never go wrong. Layer with a classic leather jacket or a trendy denim jacket for a stylish touch. Complete the outfit with a pair of comfortable sneakers or a flat sandal with details that suit your personal style.

Evening Soirees 

Dressing up as a petite woman for glamorous events can be greatly enjoyable. Opt for dresses or skirts that show a bit of leg to elongate your silhouette, or select a fitted A-line dress that flatters your figure. Pair with high heels and delicate jewellery for the final touch.

In Conclusion 

With the right cuts, proportions, and careful attention to detail, putting together polished looks as a petite woman can be effortless and chic. By mastering basics, playing with proportions, adding the right details, and creating occasion-specific looks, all petite frame ladies can create stylish outfits that reflect their personal style. The petite aesthetic mantra rings true - your height is not a hindrance, but an opportunity to showcase your unique fashion sense.

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